How Can a Worthwhile Desire Not Come True?

God said:

To everything, there is an answer. It may not be an answer you want, yet it is the answer you get. You may not want to hear that answer, yet it is your answer. You wanted a different answer. And you yearn to know why that answer. Why a no to a sweet desire of your heart, and you want to know why, as if God has to answer you the way you would like as well.

When your heart’s desire is not fulfilled, all is not lost. Consider for a moment, no matter how heartbreaking the answer is to you, the answer you receive is the right one. How can it be, you ask and ask again and again.

It positively absolutely is the right answer. Sure, you don’t understand it. How can you understand why on earth that your true love did not come to you?

I ask: How on earth can you understand? It makes no sense.

But what if everything that occurs in life or does not occur is right? Impossible for you to understand how that can be true. But what if this is true? If this is true, and you can accept the possibility, your suffering would be less. Your suffering would be a lot less. Your suffering would be non-existent. How can this be, you wonder, yet what if this is true?

It could well be that you are being spared what could have meant greater unhappiness. Right now you may be sure that a particular person is your true love and, yet, later you may see (or not) that you and he were not meant for each other, and there are other tears you would have shed mightily. How many times a day on Earth does a dream come true, and it is not the dream you thought it would be.

And then you ask again: How can such a good worthy dream held high not come true? You ask how can this be. You ask why. You ask for an explanation.

Further, how can it be right that your beloved one may leave his body and you never even have the opportunity to see what might have been?

Harder yet, how can a child be born to you, and your child leaves the world, and you are left bereft. And you ask further: Why, me? Why my baby? And the questioning goes on.

I will ask you: From the human perspective, how can any of this make sense to you? From the human perspective, what good can you possibly see coming from such heartbreak?

The perceived death may be for your evolution. It may be for the child’s evolution. It may be for the world’s evolution. It may be that you are an innocent bystander. All this is just about impossible for you to grasp. But get this far, beloveds. Get this far: What occurs is not intended as a punishment.

Surely, you don’t picture Me up here in Heaven plotting ways to hurt your heart. Surely, you don’t picture Me up in Heaven, rubbing My hands with delight, twirling My moustache like a villain in an old movie?

Surely, I am looking at a vaster picture than you can see. From My vantage, the pieces do fall into place.

You cannot understand, and this is what you may have to understand to the point that you can accept that it is beyond your understanding and you will not fight against it any longer.

How can it be that you are such a good worker, for instance, and good to everyone, and then you have a rough day at work. There’s that expression: All in a day’s work. Or maybe the expression is sometimes: All in a hard day’s work.

And there is the French expression: C’est la vie. This is life. Such is life.

Wherever your heartache may be, come to the point where you shake your head and get up and keep going and let the past be past and find out what life holds for you now and live it.

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This is not an easy Letter!

Life and God seem at odd with each other at times. When it became my IS to bid my wife of 64 years goodby she actually laughed a sweet chuckle and said: "Get in bed and cuddle me NOW!" I knew by her tone she knew the moment of passing had come. I sang to her as she passed. This is "IS" at work. God loves us no matter how it looks at the time.


So you found out what life

So you found out what life held for you now and lived it. Wow!
Thank you for sharing Georg!
Wherever your heartache may be, come to the point where you shake your head and get up and keep going and let the past be past and find out what life holds for you now and live it.

I guess, dear George, that

I guess, dear George, that the secret you are sharing deeply means: "I thought God did that to me but now I know that I chose to do that to myself for a good reason". After all, being One with God, we certainly share and approve His plan, because it is also Our plan. We have to be unconditional as God IS. His will is our will.

everything that occurs in life or does not occur is right

Yes George, that was a beautiful experience for you to know and have, a wonderful gift given to you by your sweet "other".Now you will know not to grieve at your own passing whenever that time comes.

Ever watched those National Geographic documentaries that show the air currents of the Earth from the space satellites in orbit?

It shows how everything is connected and all that is happening is happening for the good of the planet. The jungles of the Amazon is fed by the thousands of tons of nutrients of the desert dust of Africa and the Middle East daily.The people of the desert will curse the desert storms as they erupt and have to take cover but they have not an inkling of what is taking place or seeing the Big Picture!

We Humans are all helping the planet and our Universe to Live! By just being here! So many multi faceted experiences we take in by just being here besides Creating our Thoughts.
And then when we depart from this Earth there are still other lives currently operating simultaneous in other dimensions. Live does not stop.

And grieve not my Friend.We will never lose anything but gain manythings.

Our Father is wonderful to set the World into motion for us to experience wonderment.

Glory be thy name my Father.We love you. We love you. We love you.Hallelujah. Amen.


Who are you Victor, to say

Who are you Victor, to say such wonderful marvellous things? I am just wondering! Thankyou-thankyou-thankyou and Love to you! Uta
P.S.: I want to add one thing: What I like most as human being is this sweet happy love within my heart that I am aware once in a while by experiencing "just being here".

Thank you Victor for

Thank you Victor for bringing back the Big Picture to our memory in such a nice way.

Living in the Desert

I have lived through many desert sand storms here in Saudi Arabia Victor...I will now look at it a little differently ;)