Open the Doors of Acceptance

God said:

As you lose your boundaries, you may notice more the boundaries that others keep, and you do not feel the peace you want to gain. You do not feel peace at all. In fact, you feel perturbed.

You may say to yourself: "How do these people who profess to Oneness have such a narrow vision?"

And so your impatience is stretched to the limits. And so you are breaking a remaining boundary, which is your annoyance and irritation with others. Their space may seem or be narrow, and yet you must allow others their boundaries. Do you see how your impatient thinking is a boundary that you must release?

Yes, boundaries exist, within you and everyone else. Right now, We are talking about you, beloveds. Break your impatience in two. Do not divide yourself from others whose perceptions may not keep up with yours. You must be aware that there are those who have held their tongues and who had great patience with you. You can see that now. Now it is your turn to gain and give patience.

I know you do bite your tongue, and I know how difficult this is for you. And now you must bite the tongue of your mind that roars against ignorance. Oh, yes, My dearly beloveds, you must lay out the red carpet even for ignorance. You, who so want Oneness, do not want to divide people into the wise or unwise, the right thinkers or the wrong. You will achieve, by and by, a state of existence when you are Patience Supreme in that you allow everyone the freedom to be at the state of existence where they happen to be. You will welcome their heart that beats, even when it beats under what you perceive as false colors.

Maintaining your equilibrium is especially hard for you when people in positions whom you would expect to have a greater vision do not have a greater vision.

As it is now, when someone in authority falls short, you also fall short in your mental dismissal of them. In effect, you want to reform them. Who is there really for you to reform? Who is it who must enlarge his thinking? When you make room for all, when you remember that all are My children with all the rights and privileges I grant, your impatience will not be so high and mighty, and you will enlarge your thinking.

Just as you would not correct everyone you meet whose speech or spelling misses the mark, so you must let go of correction. Will you kindly live up to your own premises?

I also ask you not to be so impatient with yourself. Have a little more acceptance of even your impatience. Your impatience could be the last thread that keeps you in ignorance, beloveds. Love even your impatience. Have great compassion for it. Once impatience has your patient acceptance, it will be easier for it to leave, and you will be able to give acceptance to what you presently do not. As you open the doors of acceptance, impatience can walk out.

One day you will look around, and you will no longer feel or see impatience. It won't be that you are patient either. You will see beyond fault. Your impatient gene will take a rest. You may see fallacy, and yet you will not find fault. Do not think that this is weakness on your part. This is a great strength. You will know when to speak up, and yet you will speak up without irritation. Irritation will no longer have a foothold in your life.

Can you imagine Buddha impatient?

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Impatience

WOW! Great thoughts & inspiration!. I decided a spiritual friend had betrayed me because after a few years he told me he didn't believe that something I had confided in him that had happened to me had occurred! Instead of having compassion for his ignorance, I was hurt.

This Heavenletter makes me aware that situations require my patience and compassion for people in positions of authority whom I previously held in high esteem. I know patience is not my strong suit, but I never saw that it applies to these situations. So Thank God again!

overwhelmed!

Many times I read an Heavenletter and find it very appropriate for me, even personal. But this one is miraculous, it is my Epiphany. What we call enlightnment will not be more powerful for me than today revelation. I have to thank our beloved scribe and rest in adoration of God.

So, our immediate neighbors

So, our immediate neighbors [refered to in the previous Heavenlette, for instance] with their so-called penetrating noise and smells are messengers and contributors to our growth and joy.

Hm?

In which world do we live?

Theophil

In which world do we live?

In the one we believe to inhabit, but, lucky us, no one exists!

In which world do we live?

Can I joke a little, please?

We live in a world in which to growth it is necessary trouble, lessons, suffering, fights, wounds, to discover all these things mean nothing at all and discover the world doesn't exists like we think.

WOW!

breaking a remaining boundary

They certainly are, dear Theophil. As are war, etc. In the final analysis, there is nothing deplorable. Alas, as far as I am concerned, the final analysis hasn't really been made yet. My mind has it down pat, it makes sense, even deeply so, even, at times, more than merely intellectually so; but I feel still far from true realization of it.

You are making a very important point, one that brings into clear perspective what is one of the most beautiful features of Heavenletters™ for me: They never make me feel I ought to be somewhere where in reality I am not yet. They offer the freedom to grow organically, they offer it so generously that my impulse to pretend simply finds no fuel. I cannot tell how much I love and savor this little freedom as foretaste of the real thing.

I also ask you not to be so impatient with yourself. Have a little more acceptance of even your impatience. Your impatience could be the last thread that keeps you in ignorance, beloveds. Love even your impatience. Have great compassion for it. Once impatience has your patient acceptance, it will be easier for it to leave, and you will be able to give acceptance to what you presently do not. As you open the doors of acceptance, impatience can walk out.

Did I say I love it? OH, I JUST LOVE IT!

Coming home from a glorious day in the Alps, I find this equally glorious discussion. I just have to hug all of you.

My impatience

My impatience could be the last thread that keeps me in ignorance, dear Jochen. May I even love my impatience. May I have great compassion for it.

I want to make it comfortable for my impatience - during staying, or during leaving. That's why I want to have patient acceptance with, and a good portion of regard to my impatience, so, if it comments, that I like for it to leave, that I feel better when it has left, it will be easier for it to leave.

And I will be glad, to give room to acceptance of matters to what I presently do not. I am looking forward to new matters; to matters which make me fortget older ones one by one.

'One by one' is patience.

Being in the flow of all - no 'one by one' anymore - is our greatest desire. There is no patience and impatience anymore.

The choice is mine. How full are Heavenletters pointing out places or situations or common perceptions where and when we may take the wider sight and vastness, instead of singularities.

Be blessed,
Theophil

This Letter remember me what

This Letter remember me what I always have said to God: please, forgive my default, not those I know, for these I can arrange; but those I don't know, forgive what I didn't know. How many are they?

The Doors of Acceptance

This letter, MAESTRO, reminds me that there is no "out there". The whole Universe lives within.

AND NO, I CAN''T IMAGINE BUDDHA IMPATIENT!

It could be mistaken, but I read that beloved Jeshua was impatient with those who turned the temple into a den a thieves. Yet, that does NOT make me love him less. His Spirit is irresistible. AND I DON'T QUESTION YOUR ABSOLUTE PURE INTENT.

Darling Marymoon

Honey, "beloved Jeshua's" love boundaries have been made to look like "IMPATIENCE" but I can assure you that it was the deepest form of love that continually cleanses our "temple". "Know you not, that you are the TEMPLE?"

At times honey, we feel the scourge of love in lots of ways, some of which hurt. The result is always God, weeding our garden for us.

George always hiding the scars

Do patience? Be Patient? Try!

Patience is a way God Laughs. His essence only knows and shows patience.

Our job is not to try to do patient reactions to things that stress us. We need only to draw near to the Source of total PATIENCE to discover how hard He's laughing. Once you start to hear HIM laugh you discover the love with which he looks at each of HIS children. you can't help yourself, you just love back.

How do you do this? You can't, you can only be it.

This comes from seed planting in the garden of your inner self. I mean that you plant sees of love, seeds of reading good things, seeds of contemplating comments from readers of Heaven Letters, seeds of looking real close in the mirror at yourself and saying: "I sure love you!" Then wink at yourself and say: "Honest to God!" Then give yourself a hug. You can only love others as you love your self.

Tend your windowsill garden with loving care and dare to ignore the weeds.

George, glad for Gloria and you wonderful commenters

Wonderful

Chuck, glad for George's wonderful, wonderful comments!

Yes, let's have this

Yes, let's have this framed:

Our job is not to try to do patient reactions to things that stress us. We need only to draw near to the Source of total PATIENCE to discover how hard He's laughing.

5/20 letter from G-d

I understand the teaching on patience, however, does that also apply to witnessing abuse of others? I can't imagine that we are not enjoined to speak out and intercede.

Beloved Rebsara, there are

Beloved Rebsara, there are Heavenletters where God speaks to some of what you are addressing.

I remember a Heavenletter where God says He is neither patient nor impatient. Patience and impatience do not even exist for him. He has neither one nor the other. He has no need whatesover. !

There are Heavenletters in which God talks about causes and what to do with our own feelings when we see disrespect.

From our human level, it is not easy for us to know when to intercede and when not to. What I want to say would be too long. I'll will write a blog entry on this subject www.godwriting.org -- so please look for it.

Meanwhile, Jochen, can you find a Heavenletter or two that address some of the issues that Bebsara brought up?

I for one would love to see what all of you think about this issue

Dear Gloria, as soon as I

Dear Gloria, as soon as I read Rebsara's great question, I thought, "I wish I knew something to say." But I found I don't. So I decided to wait and see what others will say. I will try to find pertinent Heavenletters, but as yet I have no idea what to look for.

In a world of wolves and

In a world of wolves and lambs, there is an awareness further in and higher up from abuse and others. To seek this awareness and act from there is the unwavering flame of equanimity.

This is just my opinion and

This is just my opinion and I acknowledge that I could be incorrect in my reasoning. When we look at the great Masters that have come before us- Jesus, Mohammed, Buddha, Mother Theresa, Dalai Lama- all crusaders for the poor, sick, weak, and crusaders for all humanity.. how did they handle abuse. A few ideas come to mind here for me:

-Christ healed the sick and cared for the poor. He interceded when a prostitute was about to be stoned to death by (most likely) the very men who'd slept with her.
-Mother Theresa- Took care of poor orphans, dedicated her life to them.

When these ones saw abuse, they did not fight the abusers so much as they helped the victims. They promoted and worked for peace.

Can we both have patience for a person who is acting abusively but assist the victim of abuse- I believe we can. Can you intercede if you feel divinely led to do so, and still have patience with the one causing the problem? I believe so.

However, the thought in the last heaven letter of "mind you own business" and about "silence" is also good to mull over before jumping into action. I guess what I'm trying to share is that action- prayerful action- divinely led action- can have positive effects for ALL involved. However, jumping into something w/o thinking, prayerful thought, and being divinely led could mean that ego is taking us over, and that tendency to think we know what is best, etc and we could due to our limited perception do more harm.

This is such a difficult thought to conceptualize for the type of person, like myself, who is impulsive, tends to jump into situations and "help" BEFORE prayerful contemplation, before being asked, and thinking I know what's best for all involved. It's a difficult thing to witness abuse.

One quick story of something that happened to me recently. I love animals very much. My neighbor has 2 dogs that were getting awfully thin. Also, they have cats that are breeding out of control. I thought how to handle this.. I could call the humane society and report them. I could call the landlord and have him take action. I opted for the landlord. My landlord's response brought sense to me. He said "Do you want to solve the problem or cause more problem?" I wanted to solve the problem. He told me to go next door and tell the neighbors that I appreciate him maintaining the two outside dogs and how much I appreciate them protecting my house and yard too and that I'd like to feed them now and then if he wouldn't object. I did that, and my neighbor was very happy and said yes. My landlord also told me that these are tough times and maybe w/ 4 children they were having trouble feeding the dogs. Instead of judging, reacting impulsively and causing a bigger problem.. my landlord used wisdom and showed me how to solve the problem. I now buy a huge bag of dog food each month and I feed the dogs every few days. I also noticed the neighbor is feeding them now too. I also feed the 11 cats. My way would have equaled bad relations w/ the neighbor, judgment on my part.

I want to toss out there a thought- possibly an uncomfortable thought--- Like everything else in life, being abused and coming through that can spur some of the greatest growth there is. I wonder, did we maybe plan before coming to earth some of the things we'd endure here, even some of the uncomfortable things? Lastly, some believe in concepts like karma, others believe in concepts like you reap what you sow....others feel that we attract some of the uncomfortable things that happen to us into our lives.... I won't travel down this rabbit hole further but thought I'd toss it out there.

DesertRose
Our thoughts are powerful and creating our next precious moment

What a beautiful true story

What a beautiful true story you tell. What a landlord you have! You have helped tremendously in answering the question Rebsara asked and what I think we all try to reconcile.

Soon -- maybe this morning -- I want to write a blog on this issue. I will include your story, Desert Rose, with, of course, credit to you.

Blessed be you.

The blog entry about your

The blog entry about your beautiful experience with your neighbor is up on the blog:

http://www.godwriting.org/godwriting/when-to-keep-silent-and-when-to-spe...

Come see!

Untill we reach awareness it

Untill we reach awareness it is so difficult say what is right and what is not, even if really there isn't right nor wrong. For everyone of us. Everyone face wath there is on his own path. In that sense we can say everything is right.
We do have intercede, we do have. However with love in our heart. Without love like promotor of our actions, well, it is easy do something not our better.
God always says we are Him, He is in our heart, and we know it is exactly like this. So, when we are abuse witness the first reaction we have is correct; always with love in our heart. There means nothing patience, there means light of God.
Love, this is the alpha and the omega.

Beloved Pitta, you said so

Beloved Pitta, you said so simply the words I have longed to think of:

"There means nothing patience, there means light of God."

Beautiful!

all is well

God says all is well, despite our vivid imagination. Turn left or right, but move on. I have nothing better to do than believe Him.

Oh, beloved Emilia, you give

Oh, beloved Emilia, you give another great layer of understanding. Bellisimo!

Dear God, I agree about when

Dear God,

I agree about when someone in authority falls short but then we fall short if we judge them. I don't totally understand you about boundaries God. I've spent a lifetime learning healthy boundaries and yet I do see your point about oneness and unity and how can we have that if everyone has extremely rigid boundaries. Maybe you could clarify about the boundary thing God.

Love,

DesertRose
Our thoughts are powerful and creating our next precious moment

Dearest Child,

I do not speak of personal boundaries that are logical for all to have to one extent while in human form. Your body, vessel itself, creates a type of boundary. I am speaking of all the many little unnecessary boundaries people create in order to separate themselves from others. When these boundaries are laid down voluntarily, then more oneness will take place. Afterall, I created humanity and therefore all are related.

Love,
God

Dear God,

Yes, thank you. That makes sense to my heart. I will think more deeply on this today.

Love,

Desert Rose

Responding to abuse

There are so many things that gladden my heart and lift my spirit about these forums that it would take pages to list them. This discussion is a superb example.

All of the discussion is wonderful, but let me point out certain highlights that helped guide me with where I am going with this post.

First, the Heavenletter itself seems to be mostly about our acceptance of what is going on in the world and maintaining a non-judgmental, patient attitude towards what is called “fallacy”, and how we should let go of finding fault even as we acknowledge the fallacies of certain behavior. A beautiful, immensely practical letter.

A number of excellent comments follow and then we get to Rebsara’s wonderful contribution. Rebsara takes us in a related but somewhat divergent direction in asking if the ”patience” directive of this letter applies when we witness the abuse of others. We find ourselves skiing down a different slope from the same mountain top.

I have searched the Heavenletters archives, the “Your personal questions to God” series and the Heavenpetals forum. I have not found anything that directly speaks to this quite important issue. Obviously, many others agree with its importance judging from the comments. I will return to a few key comments that followed Rebsara’s question.

Desertrose asks: “Can you intercede if you feel divinely led to do so, and still have patience with the one causing the problem?” And she answers: “I believe so.” I certainly agree with her, but the key issue becomes knowing when we are divinely directed to do so, especially in the heat of the moment when we may have little time to consider our actions. Her fantastic story helps guide here and is has been nicely acknowledged. She ends this comment by raising the question of whether we can always know the important hidden, spiritual roles that some of the unpleasant behaviors may be fulfilling. This is important, other letters tell us that such hidden roles exist and we seem to have no way to know for sure.

Pitta, in a post that follows, says that we do have to intercede when we can, but she adds that it is hard to know what is right and what is wrong. I also agree with this and with her observation that unless love promotes our action it is easy to act unwisely.

I skipped over much that is beautiful and helpful in the commentary, but I wanted to point out that we are still without a final answer, at least in my opinion. We are kind of still hanging with this question. The comments so far have taken me much further than I was able to get on my own, but I couldn’t help feeling there is further we can go. I sat down in meditation and asked for further guidance. You could call what follows to be a dialogue between my conscious mind and my heart’s wisdom.

………..

Question: We are told that we shouldn’t judge others, and to give up our habit of trying to control their behavior, but what do we do when we witness violence and others being abused when it is within our power to physically intervene? Do we restrain ourselves and not act or do we use our abilities to rescue those who are otherwise powerless to defend themselves?

Answer: You are to do nothing except what is sponsored by the love in your heart. To do anything else is less rather than more. Your real question, then, is what is it in your heart to do in response to the physical circumstances you are witnessing. Many times the easy part of the answer is in accepting and not judging the ones acting so egregiously, but this is not where this question is really taking you. Let’s assume that you totally accept everyone’s right to act according to how they are motivated by their experience of life. Given this assumption, what you are asking is how you should guide you physical actions when you are a witness to physical or emotional abuse. The key comes down to following your heart. No set of rules can really help you. No laws and no well accepted scriptures can give you the best answer. The best answer, the answer you are looking for, is to be aware of what you heart desires and to do your best to follow your heart.

Question: So, am I to understand that sometimes our optimal response is to do nothing except wish that all involved resolve things for the best, and other times we should do everything within reason to help a vulnerable and defenseless individual or group?

Answer: The way you phrase this is reasonable. It is your heart that connects you with God’s will and with God’s judgment of any situation. Your mind cannot possibly understand the ramifications, but your heart has instant and totally reliable access.

…………………

I’m not sure this addition to the dialogue resolves anything, but it seems to move a little further along. It points away from looking outside ourselves for guidance and toward knowing what our heart is truly trying to tell us. No simple answer, here, but a consistent theme that all answers and all knowledge already exist within.

My love and best wishes….Chuck

Please see this blog entry:

Please see this blog entry:

http://www.godwriting.org/godwriting/when-to-keep-silent-and-when-to-spe...

Oh, to come from love! I want to pin a medal on Desert Rose's landlord!

You're magnificent, like you

You're magnificent, like you are.

Chuck is glory exposed to the light

Your writing drips with the honey of loving insight right from God's heart about human consciousness! Thanks for taking the time to fill so much heart space! You're a wonder!

George can't get over it.

1 Heavenletter Haiku for

1 Heavenletter Haiku for you

Hello Friends,

God said this is strength
Feel the peace you want to gain
Release boundaries

Love, Light and Aloha!

perfect answer

As you lose your boundaries, you may notice more the boundaries that others keep, and you do not feel the peace you want to gain. You do not feel peace at all. In fact, you feel perturbed.

You may say to yourself: "How do these people who profess to Oneness have such a narrow vision?"

And so your impatience is stretched to the limits. And so you are breaking a remaining boundary, which is your annoyance and irritation with others.

perfect answer 2

If you only knew how much this applies to me today, it is incredible, I can't believe it. I was trying to post something of the kind, in my own words, maybe half an hour ago, I wrote it and then deleted it.
But why God, oh why my entire life like that? I think only humour can help here and the hope of changing air soon.
P.S. Between You and me, God, I do not believe You are so acquiescent with stupidity.

 

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