Be a True Star

God said:

The language you use matters. Language is only language, yet your choice of words matters. How you speak bespeaks your relationship to the world. How you speak bespeaks how you think the world relates to you.

I would suggest that you favor gentle speech. That may help to tame the world and yourself.

At the same time as I say this, your speech is more than your words and tone of voice. Your speech is a revealer. It reveals your consciousness.

You know what it is to be angry and still speak sweetly. That is commendable, but better yet that you speak sweetly and be aligned with your speech.

Sometimes you have been taught manners. You may have read books on manners, and you dutifully follow what you learn. You do well to use manners. How much better yet it is when manners, which are consideration, come from the wealth of your heart rather than a protocol.

There are situations that arise that have no prescribed protocol.

At these times take a breath and remember Me. Remember Whom you work for. Remember Whom you are representing. If you were wise and wonderful, how would you respond when someone gets your goat? Who is responsible for your irateness? You know it's difficult for anyone to make you do anything but what you choose to do.

Yes, you say you would rather not be angry, and yet you choose anger. Can you only be courtly when the person in front of you is nice? It is easy for you to be calm and well-mannered when the person in front of you is calm and well-mannered. Yet, can you only be what the person in front of you is? Can you only parrot emotions and words?

You understand by now that you are an actor in life. Actors play different roles. What if, in this situation you find yourself in and upset by, that you are to play the role of an exquisite lady or gentleman who always rises above the skirmishes in the world and rescues everyone who happens to be acting the role of an unruly person? Is it not possible that you can write the script for this scene of the play you are in? What if you can accommodate another person? What if you don't have to defend yourself? What if you don't have to get into it with him? What if this person before you is distraught for a substantial reason that has nothing to do with you? Do you have to know what it is? Could you be compassionate then and play well the role of one who gives solace rather than rebuttal? What would you have to prove then, beloved? Have you really thought that you have to stick up for yourself? Are you sure you're not sticking up for your ego?

No one has the right to speak harshly to you. Without exception, no one is right to direct rude anger at you. But nor are you right to redirect anger at anyone. Expression of anger is unmannerly. You will agree that all anger, no matter how exalted, is rude, won't you? Of course, you think that your anger is justified. You wouldn't be angry otherwise.

And now I am going to tell you that no matter the perceived cause, no anger is justified. I know you will argue with me over this. Let me put it this way - there is no justification for your portraying yourself as less than you are. I have told you Who you are. When you feel anger, that is when to become creative, give your best performance, and be a true star in the play of life.

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You must have disarmed me

You must have disarmed me without my even noticing it, dear God. Yes, I still get angry and self-righteous, I still get the impulse to argue with You. But there is no fun in it any more, none of that satisfaction it used to yield. If anger is evidence that I'm portraying myself as less than I am, that has to mean it wasn't directed against another in the first place. I get angry (and any number of equally unwarranted things) when I don't know who I am. Boy, that's something.

I agreed with God's opinion

I agreed with God's opinion on anger. Sometimes when you got irritated by people, and if you acted like you don't really care, you win in the end! And infact you will be happier, feel healthier and so go on care less about people's perception or opinion around you!

Because at the end of the day, these people around you have no right to judge you. We are all here to experience our life lessons, only God knows what we need to learn.

:)
Juliana

Beloved Juliana, I have seen

Beloved Juliana, I have seen some situations reverse themselves because I kept my mouth shut. So far as I know, just that seemed to solve all the disagreements. I don't know that I am able to do that in person, but I am working on it.

Thanks for posting, dear Juliana.

This is like a reminder

This is like a reminder story from God to me.
I know i have to be kind and gentle to myself. I have to stop giving myself mental attack - meaning saying negative things aiming at myself.

I must always think that i'm successful even when people around me don't really agreed.

But i am infact successful, i have gone thru many life experiences and i thank God for letting me going thru all these and still be able to bounceback to life.

What if, in this situation

What if, in this situation you find yourself in and upset by, that you are to play the role of an exquisite lady or gentleman who always rises above the skirmishes in the world and rescues everyone who happens to be acting the role of an unruly person?

I am in awe of the timeliness of Heaven Letters - I have been saying yes to me and no to the world at times when it is appropriate for my well being and one of my friends of many years has experienced me saying yes to myself...he is experiencing it as me saying no to him and he feels victimized and feels he has 'taken a hit' by my behaviors. He called me yesterday and was in a very foul mood...there were so many things I wanted to say 'in retaliation' but I just kept taking deep breaths and said out loud, "Dear God, what can I say at this moment?" And my friend said, 'you don't have to do or say anything..the ball is in your court...does this mean you won't call me again?" It was really strange and I just kept breathing and at one moment I said to him that he is the creator of his own life and if he wants to create the end of the friendship then that is up to him. The call ended and I got very still and asked God what to do...and I called him back and I reminded him that a long time ago he had said to me that he wanted to be friends..he just enjoyed the company of me as a good friend and I reminded him of how he has been a good friend for many years and at this moment, he seems to have forgotten himself. I told him I really liked this other person who was giving and fun loving and felt a higher purpose and helped others and enjoyed life...he told me he was gonna have to go find this other guy because, in truth, he liked him a lot better than this guy who is depressed, angry and feeling like a victim. It's the first time in my life that I was able to truly pray in the moment and ask God for guidance and open myself up to the response...to get beyond my hurt ego and I am so filled with gratitude that I could experience this....I shall make this a practice and now have a wonderful framework and see myself as an elegant lady with long white gloves and a beautiful gown overflowing with God's love in my heart....
Thank you dear Gloria...what a gift today~!

Yes, and what a gift your

Yes, and what a gift your story is, Marysunshine!

Marysunshine, I second what

Marysunshine, I second what Jochen said.

And I love your long white gloves and beautiful manners.

I also see you wearing a sparkling tiara. Maybe you are even a princess. :)

From Lina... Hello beautiful

From Lina...

Hello beautiful Angels,
Here I translate a beautiful message from Lina. Lina is from Bogota, Colombia. They are her words, not mine. I am just copying them here while she gets to know the blog. You can read her original words at Heavenletters Spanish translations forum. With Love… Elisabeth

Appreciated Elizabeth ... I am moved by the messages that I have received from you and Gloria and Anita in which you send me samples of affection and gratitude ... and the detail so special to translate my commentary to English. .., through Anita, I know that Gloria invites me to participate in the forum ... but I learned computers one year ago ... and I still don t dominate the entrance to blogs ... I will tell you more, what a beautiful message from God´s Love ... You Are From The Stars. , I tried to post but I could not. ... It was especially a response to God ... and I know Gloria will love it …because , I feel actually on the God´s shoulders and mess up his hair and I place a rose on his golden left ear ... and I hold the earth between my hands and I imagine that God wraps in love the Earth through a beautiful golden light ... please, while I learn to do correctly ... tell Gloria that I am grateful for everything that I have learned to love God by her ...., Thousand and thousand thanks ... forever ... Lina.

My comment that I could not post is this:

Dear God ... I can not imagine any more cherished dream for you and for all of us but being in embrace we all and to be fully aware of being in your arms ... or maybe be on your shoulders, holding your head, giving you loving kisses ,whispering you how great is our love for you and contemplate all together your entire creation ... with so much happiness and admiration because only of yours is this great beauty, the immensity of the Universes and we are the children and lights of your vast universe created for our happiness and yours ... we are the stars and we are dressed in stars that shine in the immensity of your thought and when you breathe, you love us so much ..., how is it possible not to love you more and more forever, thank you for helping us to remember that your love is everywhere ... Thanks for your care and Infinite Divine Affection. ... Thanks, Gloria for your messages with the words of our beloved God, a thousand and thousand thanks for allowing me to tell God that our love is intimate and mutual .. with infinite gratitude ... Lina.

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Hello Friends,

God said I suggest
That you favor gentle speech
Language bespeaks you

God said Beloveds
I have told you Who you are
Representing Me

Love, Light and Aloha!

Oh, what a wonderful

Oh, what a wonderful Heavenletter really !!

Can you only be courtly when the person in front of you is nice? It is easy for you to be calm and well-mannered when the person in front of you is calm and well-mannered. Yet, can you only be what the person in front of you is? Can you only parrot emotions and words?

So, "..give your best performance, and be a true star in the play of life."

Love it !

Berit

Wow! God you did it

Wow! God you did it again....thank you for handing me a tool to work with.

Sophia19
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