Who Is Being Realistic Now?

God said:

When you say that life is hard, what you are really saying is that life does not always give you what you want or what you demand and insist on. Demand and insist all you want, and you show your belief in winning, and you show your belief in losing as well. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. When you venture, the venturing is your gain. That you applied yourself is your gain. In the going for, you gain.

When you can accept that life does not have to deliver what you order, how hard will life be then?

What if everything is all right as it is, even when it doesn't live up to your desires?

Set standards for yourself but not for others and not for life. Let life be. Your life is not dependent upon outcomes. I repeat, your life is not dependent upon outcomes. Outcomes are end results. What you do is your business. Outcomes belong to themselves.

Be confident in a certain stability within yourself, and let the control of results in life go. By all means, apply for a job you want, for example. Follow through, yet do not grit your teeth and tell yourself that you must have that job. Insist on what you yourself can do, and do not for one minute think you can dictate someone else's decision. That is not your jurisdiction. That is not your role. Your role is to go for and then let go.

Remember that I gave free will. What I give, so must you give.

When you endeavor to control that which is not in your control anyway, you will successfully raise your blood pressure. When you would like to lower your blood pressure, let go of trying to control. Choose to go through life at a more relaxed pace.

Apply yourself to the job at hand, and let the results be what they may.

Perhaps you love someone with all your heart. And now, no matter how much you love with all your heart, the one you love loves another. So be it. If, in order to achieve what you want means you have to thwart another's will, stop there. Stop right there. You are not meant to impose your will over another's will. Who are you to even think of it?

Beloveds, you are responsible for your happiness. Surely you can have and have had an extra dollop or two of happiness from others. Others can boost your having a good feeling about yourself. Even so, you are the one to grace yourself with good feeling. Grace yourself.

When you feel that people have let you down, for all intents and purposes, you have let yourself down. You had expectations that might or might not have been fulfilled. And when your expectations are not met, who is responsible for keeping your spirits high? You. Just you, beloveds. Well, you and I.

Life is like a jigsaw puzzle. You can only fit in one piece at a time, and you cannot make a piece fit that doesn't. You thought it would fit. It looked like it would fit, only it didn't fit. It had all the earmarks except, in actuality, the piece simply didn't fit. Who is it who said that it had to? You, beloveds. You said your dream had to come true. Is it a law?

In the metaphor of the puzzle as your life, your chosen piece does not have to fit. Your wanting it to fit doesn't make it fit. Who is being realistic now?

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Thank you!

This letter hits my nerves big time. I know that I am the one that is responsible for my happiness, but it's so hard to find that joy within when I see and feel that my so called loved ones turn their back on me. But it does make sense, I just have to work on it. Thanks for this wonderful letter, I need this reminder!

Much love
Reidun

Not always easy, dear

Not always easy, dear Reidun. But look how open you are to having the intention. God bless you.

Look, my Dear, how is

Look, my Dear, how is difficult for us understand what You mean.
Much letters to say to us that we do have to desire enough, much more, for we are like You, we are You and all the glory is over us and inside our heart, we have to thing our life as new we are able to do it, You see the reality into us like Divine Being. And then You tells us all our desires aren't so take for granted. Where is the right way?
I know, where is it: in the middle, just right now. I think untill our thoughts aren't purify we aren't able to understand Your Power, the Power of Love. Love is the result we look for, Love is the answer to all our questions, to all our desires.
Remember you say: the responsible to keeping our spirit hight are YOU and we. Certanly You remember it.
So, how to worry about it? We can do the 80%, the rest is all Yours. Wait us at the finishing line, we are arriving

Pitta, dear one, you seem to

Pitta, dear one, you seem to have understood so much already, more than I. There are many beautiful Heavenletters on the topic of "desiring and not being attached to results". Let me give you the link for one that I like very much and have read several times but still cannot really fathom because, whenever I open it again, it seems to have dveloped new levels of depth in the meantime.....

http://www.heavenletters.org/where-to-start.html

Here we start!

Jochen, dear, many thanks for the link, I read the Letter and, as the fantastics one, I printed it, so I could read it again and again: it is poetic, beautifull.
It remember to me the ancient art of archery; be the arrow, feel the arrow then pull it without expettation for the target. You have already did centre.
How the river of the life rises in the being! Isn't that poetic?

Much love to you

Pitta

REALISTIC? WHO'S BEING REALISTIC?

GOOD MORNING, GRACIOUS MAESTRO!, We love this Letter of Love today from you!
It's all about our EGO'S and their dreadful l need to control. Control! When I think of
it now, it's hilarious! Why this need to control LIFE? Life is meant to flow with ease! LIFE IS A RIVER THAT FLOWS. LIFE IS THE PEACEFUL WAY STARS WHEEL AROUND THE GREAT VAULT OF THE HEAVENS. AT PEACE AND SO DELICIOUSLY JOYOUS AND BEAUTIFUL YOU ARE THE SOURCE OF ALL PEACE!

Just before I read this exquisite HEAVENLETTER, I read the news on the computer that
the people in North Korea are feeling threatened, and thus threatening NUCLEAR WAR !!
We the People of America MUST LEARN, and I do believe with our new President, the
Angel Obama does understand and will sit down with the Leader of North Korea and there will be a great loosening of tensions- and we will have the PEACE THAT YOU WILL
FOR US, MOST BELOVED MAESTRO! WE ADORE YOU! WE ARE HERE FOR YOU!
WE ARE HERE FOR YOUR PEACE! WE ARE HERE TO SERVE - WITH LOVE!

Deja vu

Reading this letter was like an experience of déjà vu for me.

About 15 years ago I was struggling with decisions about different directions I could go with my career. I wanted to make full use of my God-given abilities and I was not sure which path would be most beneficial, particularly what would be most helpful to others. I felt so uncertain and the decision seemed very important to me at the time.

Then one night I had a dream. It was one of those dreams that seemed totally and completely real even when what was going on was outlandish. In the dream, some sort of “being” which I could not see spoke to me in a voice I could hear in my mind but no one else heard. This “being” said he had something to teach me and that I should follow him. I said: “Sure.” He took me back through time to about a half dozen historical events in which I was a fully participating while he silently directed me as to what I should do. After these historical events he brought me back to the present and asked me what I thought he was trying to show me. I told him these experiences showed me the importance of trust and having faith. He didn’t say so, but I felt his agreement.

I knew he was about to leave and it occurred to me that I should not pass up this opportunity. I quickly blurted out: “Since you are here, would you mind answering a few questions?”

He said: “Sure.”

I asked him what I should do with my career plans.

He said: “What do you want to do?”

It told him the path I preferred, but how I was so unsure about what would work out the best in the long run, not being sure which would be most successful.

He said: “Your intentions are good, you should do what you prefer.”

I said: “What if my plans fail and it turns out that I do not fully utilize the abilities I have?”

What my “teacher” said next has been of immense value and has never failed me. He said: “What you do out of good intent can only produce what is good. The outcome may or may not look good to you, but you cannot truly understand. You do not control the outcomes of your actions, nor do you understand their significance. Relax, do not worry about what you do not control nor understand, act with good intent and trust that a good outcome is assured.”

When I awoke I wrote what I remembered of the dream, but I needn’t have, since I remember it like it was a movie I watched yesterday afternoon.

Wow!

Wow!

Wow!

Wow!

Epa! (wow in Spanish) Oua!

Epa! (wow in Spanish)
Oua! (wow in Romanian)

So you teach, you give old

So you teach, you give old remembrance, you lighten every little corner of the mind, my mind and surely the one of someone else.
My dear. Pitta

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Hello Friends,

God said so be it
Remember I gave free will
And so must you give

Love, Light and Aloha!