The Key to Relationships

God said:

Hasten your heart to speak its language. Your heart's language is love. Languages are to be spoken. That is what they are for. Words are not the only language. Without words, love can be spoken very well.

You may be rusty in speaking the language of love. If your giving love has been squeaky, oil your love with practice. Practice the giving of love, and you will be a natural speaker. You will not know how to stop expressing love. It is natural to express love. Love is meant to be expressed. A cow gives milk. A heart gives love. Pump that heart of yours, and love will express itself.

If your language of love has been stored in the basement or in the attic, take it out now. Rub its joints. Massage it a little. Prime that pump. The time is now. The right time is now. The right time is not to be waited for. It is always a good time. It is always the right time for love.

If you were love, full love this moment, what would it be like? What would you be like?

If I announced you the King or Queen of Love, how would you begin? What would be the first law you would enact? Perhaps you would enact laws like these: No one is to go out the door without love. No one is to get out of bed in the morning without love. No one is to refute love.

Of course, all the laws in the world do not create love. The heart does. Love comes from the heart. Love comes from the mind as well. The mind can say to the heart: "Full steam ahead!"

The heart will answer: "I have long been awaiting a signal, and now it has come. Full steam ahead. Chug-a-chug we go."

Love has always wanted to be given its freedom. Love doesn't like to be held back. Love does not belong in chains. Love knows very well how to behave. Love is modest and just goes out on the town. It doesn't call attention to itself. It just does its thing. The heart is happy, and everyone the heart blesses is happy, and the whole world is happy because love came out.

Love was never meant to be held in reserve.

It has long been said that communication is the key to relationships. Yes, that's good, yet it is love that is to be communicated. Love shows up. Love is long-standing. Love can be felt, and love can be communicated. Sometimes love is communicated in silence. In silence does not mean that love is silent. Love is speaking wherever it is.

Now love is going to call out from the rooftops. Love is going to pronounce its name. Love is into love, not causes. Love proclaims itself. There is nothing but love to proclaim. There is no lack of love. There is lack of love expressed. There is lack of love thought of. There is lack of love felt.

How can it be that the mightiest power in the world is not shared profusely? How can it be that the greatest commodity in the world is not thrown to the winds for everyone? How is it that love cannot be rejoiced in as a daily event? It makes no sense for love to be withheld. What are you waiting for? Begin now. Just love and love and love and love some more.

Love is not new, yet love is always anew. There are refills of love abounding. Beloveds, there is nothing like love, and there is nothing else in the whole world but love. Even love withheld is love. But now, today, open the sluices of love in your heart. The dam has broken. Love pours out from your heart today, and love covers all the land with itself.

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Every time when I read and translate the Heavenletters, it just like the GOD speaks to me in right time and space, sometimes I cannot help snobbing because my heart is full of joy and love. I know the GOD with me, yes, not by words, but by love! Just like an old poem in China: 好雨知时节,当春乃发生。随风潜入夜,润物细无声。Which means : Good rain knows the season, when spring is here. Wind sneaked into the night, moisten things silently. The Heavenletters is such beautiful spring rain!
After I put the Chinese Heavenletters into blog( ,can you open it now? , ),thousands of people read it, they are enlightened and feel wonderful! Thanks GOD,Thank you,Gloria.LOVE YOU ALL!

You will find a long

You will find a long response to Innerpeace's beautiful post here:


I cannot thank enough for reading it in two languages, it quiets my mind like anything and I have no desire to say something like I did it in the past. Each HL is so full and simple and complete and round in itself, that every word to quote is like a supplement that is not really needed. But of course today I have something to quote, how could it be otherwise, something that is so natural since my childhood: Just love and love and love and love some more.

May it be so easy for all of

May it be so easy for all of us to just love and love and love some more -- as it is for you, Nirmala.

At least, it is easy to love

At least, it is easy to love lovable people. But to see the innocent, beautiful being beyond what we consider less worthy a person is still for me an intellectual effort. I understand it but I don't feel it really. I know it should be spontaneous. But I would need God's glasses.

Whenever you are in doubt or

Whenever you are in doubt or when the self becomes too much with you, apply the following test: Recall the face of the poorest and weakest man you have seen and ask yourself if the step you contemplate is going to be of any use to him.

Will he gain anything by it?

Will it restore him to a control over his own life and destiny?

In other words, will it lead to Swaraj (freedom/empowerment) for the hungry and spiritually starving millions?

Then you will find your doubts and your self melting away.

~ Mahatma Gandhi

I found a response to God's Glasses

Thanks Nirmala. This quote

Thanks Nirmala. This quote is very "à propos". The personal self is reactive, evaluative while the Higher Self is proactive. Thought and action should be one.

From the Heart

"Of course, all the laws in the world do not create love. The heart does. Love comes from the heart."

From The Heart

Lub dub, lub dub…
Love dove, love dove…
That sweet rhythm, deep inside…
The place where Peace and Love abide…

Pumped pure from the eternal Heart,
Love forever flows to impart
Life, love in full expression,
Through this conduit of spiritual connection,

This artery I call “myself”,
This vessel that I all too well
Know must open wide its flow,
Letting the blessings come and go

From within to without and back again,
The unit circle, no start, no end;
Letting go those definitions, from the mind,
That make this channel hard and lined

With fears, doubts and confusion,
The baggage of desire, the hard occlusions
Of perceived need, the fire of acquisition,
All leading to the flow’s reduction…

The Heart’s flow…the Source of living,
Its maintenance assured by giving
Freely of the blessing received
With open heart and hand; indeed

By stretching this channel’s girth, by growing
Ever less “myself”, ever more the glowing
Of Spirit’s light, ‘til at last I know
I am not the vessel…but part of the flow.

rcd 1/31/06