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How to find love

I've been a Heavenletter reader for a few years now, and I know many of the daily letters describe loving with an open heart. I'm hear to ask a different question. What is God's role in helping us find romantic love? Is it fate, destiny, coincidence? I'm at the age where all of my friends are getting married, and I'm still looking for Mr. Right. I know I need to always trust in God, but sometimes it is hard.

I guess I just need someone to tell me that God will make it happen in His time. I hope it is soon.


Dear Godtakethewheel.

I think the question is not about God's role. Finding love is our role, not His. Actualy, we don't need to look for love. It is within us. We just need to express it, to love.

Sometimes we just want to be loved, but don't love. So, love. We should first love. We should try to love everyone around us.

Keep calm, do not desperate.

And read this: It's about love.

Jaime Rendón

Jaime, you have given a

Jaime, you have given a beautiful answer. Yes, it's true. And I love that you suggested a great Heavenletter!

Sometimes destiny plays a part. I sure know a sense of desperation. I grew up thinking that marrying was everything. In those terms, I never met the "right man." However, I was blessed and met God. Life is good.

Beloved Questioner, may you and a good man of your dreams meet soon. May all your dreams be fulfilled.

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Thank you both for your

Thank you both for your response. I greatly appreciate it, and the link to that wonderful heavenletter. Gloria, thank you for that wonderful thought.

I believe it will happen when its meant to, although I will continue to keep my eyes open. In the mean time, I will continue to learn about myself and grow spiritually. I have the heavenletters to guide me. Thank you!