What Makes You So Sure?

God said:

All the things that you and the world say are unfortunate, how do you know they are not blessings? They may be blessings disguised or blessing deferred. When you have not yet read the whole book, how do you know with certainty how the book ends?

Even tears are a blessing. They are a blessing as much as laughter. Of course, you may prefer laughter when it rings pure joy, and yet what makes you so sure that laughter is good and tears of sorrow are not?

What if you had no judgments, had never made any, had never bought into any? What if you did not see good, and you did not see bad? What if you just saw? What if you just saw, and nothing was labeled wonderful or terrible? What if life could occur and not be labeled at all?

What if there were no words for lovely or unlovely? What if life were not rated on a scale and was, instead, taken as it comes?

You would neither push nor pull. No dams to life would be built. All tides would be welcome, and all tides would wash over you and be gone.

As it is, there are no tides you can stem.

When death of the body comes, it comes. When a loved one leaves you, he or she has left. When it rains, it rains. When the sun shines, the sun shines.

Of course, you can change you. You can change overnight. You can lose old thinking and gain new thinking. You can break old habits and learn new ones. You can come out of the shade and go into the sunlight.

This thing of judgment goes far deeper than you thought. Oh, if only you could judge not at all! How freed you would be! And you would free everyone around you.

No longer would disappointment exist. There would still be joy. Joy would continue to exist. Joy is quite natural. Who would not take joy at a dozen red roses? Or wonderful fresh baked bread hot from the oven? Or a grin from you?

Who would not welcome everyone and everything when there is no judgment attached?

All people would be treated alike.

All events.

All storms.

All picnics.

When judgment leaves, where would love be not?

Right now, whom would you rather follow, judgment or love? I know your answer. I know you would choose love. And, yet, you may not be quite ready to let go of judgment. It has hung on to you for so long. You may wonder how you would live without it.

You may well consider judgment the same as discernment. You may wonder why you have a brain at all unless you are able to make judgments.

Without judgment, you would still make choices. You would still have preferences. If someone offers you a chocolate brownie or a butterscotch brownie, your hand can reach out for your preference. You are not saying that one or the other is good or bad.

If someone offers you a bribe or a rifle, you can say no to either or to both. You do not have to judge the person who offers a bribe. In a moment of weakness, a human being offered something you wish he hadn't. You can choose to stay away from that person, and yet you can hold him in My light without judging or condemning him.

Judgment has been a bigger culprit than you realized. Judgment could be cutting your heart in two.

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Yes! Oi, I kicked out that

Yes! Oi, I kicked out that fiend judgment. My home has been so much brighter and lighter since! Judgment still peers in every now and again through the windows, but there is no welcome mat for judgment anymore. And yes in all aspects of life there is constant Joy. In stillness, one may see the field as dancing particles of bliss.

That is beautiful. Judgment

That is beautiful, Senor. Judgment still looks in the my window and knocks on my door. If we could all be without judgment, how happy we would be. I would love to be without judgment. It seems so ingrained.

Judgement seems ingrained...

Judgement seems ingrained. But that is just another appearance in the mind...and appearances can be so, so deceiving. Let it all go...and then take a new look! Love, Jim and Jimi.

WHAT MAKES US SO SURE?

I JUST WROTE A LONG COMMENT TO THIS HEAVEN LETTER AND I LOVED IT! AND
THEN IN AN INSTANT - FOR SOME REASON, IT SIMPLY DISAPPEARED INTO CYBER
SPACE! I LOVED IT, BUT

I WON'T WRITE IT AGAIN. TODAY I WILL JUST TAKE TO HEART THE TRUTH THAT
JUDGMENT IS A BIGGER CULPRIT THAN I HAVE EVER KNOWN. AND I WILL CHOOSE
NOT TO CUT MY HEART IN TWO WITH JUDGMENT. I WILL NOT JUDGE EVENTS,
PICNICS, STORMS, PEOPLE, PLANE CRASHES, FOR FROM YOUR POINT OF
VIEW , DEAR MAESTRO, ALL IS ALWAYS WELL. FOR, WITHOUT A DOUBT, YOUR PURITY OF INTENT DWELLS AT THE HEART OF ALL THAT IS.

I WILL ALLOW MYSELF A MOMENT OF WEAKNESS, SEE IT AND EXTEND YOUR
MERCY TO MYSELF QUICKLY AND TO OTHERS IN THEIR MOMENT OF WEAKNESS.

LOVE ALWAYS

So beautiful...

So beautiful, thank you Mary Moon...Jim.

Sorry you lost what you had

Sorry you lost what you had written, dear Mary Moon.

Judgment is merciless!

I was confounded by this

I was confounded by this Heavenletter until I got to this sentence "You can choose to stay away from that person, and yet you can hold him in My light without judging or condemning him." Then, I relaxed a little. Because we choose to stay away from a person but still hold them in God's Light is not a judgement but a choice and preference for our individual lives.

I admit it. I'm not there yet. I still have judgment within. However, in going through my own process with this issue, things are looking up : ). Now, mostly my judgment is focused on criminal elements and yes I admit to judging. If a person, does the unthinkable, horrible acts, to get a death penalty conviction and I am in agreement w/ such sentence isn't that judgment on my part? I'm judging the criminal as worthy of the penalty and am in agreement w/ the penalty. I know some people who are more spiritually evolved than I that would say not to judge such a person. However, doesn't one have to judge the acts? As a society, do we not have to use judgment? I feel confused. I know in my heart when I'm being judgmental and should not be. I feel it inside. I know that I must let that type of judgment go. I know when I judge circumstances, other people, etc that it's not good for me or them to do so. Is all judging incorrect? Can we judge the act but not the person? In other words, can we agree that the punishment is just for the acts created, but still hold the perpetrator in God's light? Or, ultimately are we still judging? I don't know how to not judge in regard to egregious acts against humanity? Maybe I'm just not there yet.

DesertRose
Our thoughts are powerful and creating our next precious moment

Hi, Desert Rose. I believe

Hi, Desert Rose. I believe that there is a Heavenletter in which God says it's good to be confused!

How many of us are there? If we were there, would God send us a Heavenletter about it?!!!!

I just remembered a story. In an old culture, when one of the people did something wrong, his tribe gathered around him. The wrongdoer was in the middle. The people did not accuse. They told the person what they liked about him. Could he steal after that?

Desert Rose, I loved how you resolved the situation with your next door neighbor. Your landlord did not sit in judgment. He was in the realm of love. He didn't do the norm. He was creative instead. And you, because you were able to listen to your landlord, you brought more love to the world.

Gloria! Re: "All the things

Gloria!

Re: "All the things that you and the world say are unfortunate, how do you know they are not blessings?"

I feel this is so true!

We could actually go further with this logic and substitute the words "negative" and "positve" for "unfortunate" and "fortunate," respectively, and the statement would still be true.

E.g. "All the things that you and the world say are negative, how do you know they are not positive?"

So why don't you go deeper, God? Is it because the world is not quite ready to hear the truth?

Thanks for this thought-provoking letter!

Christine Hoeflich

Because another vocabulary

Because another vocabulary is used, does that make a thought deeper?

God has given plenty of Truths, it seems to me, that the world at large may not be ready for.

In any case, I imagine that every Heavenletter is read on many levels. I think God knows what He's doing!

Is God holding back?

Christine, you ask a wonderful question: "So why don't you go deeper, God?" If you follow the messages of Heavenletters, which now include thousands in the archives, you may periodically feel that a given letter treats certain topics in less depth than you would prefer. When I have felt this way and searched for other pertinent letters, I have found that all the depth that I can handle is right there.

I think the limitation is in us, the readers. We can only understand the depth of the message that we are ready for in our current level of awareness. Often, when I go back and re-read a letter I find it holds profound messages that I missed in an earlier reading, and having read other letters sort of unlocks the meaning for me.

It may be my naivete showing here, but I think the answer to your question is to continue to be open to more of God's instruction and to give it more time.....Chuck

HEAVEN #3116 Beyond Words,

HEAVEN #3116 Beyond Words, June 6, 2009, is the perfect answer to these comments!
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I do not reproach. I love. (HEAVEN #1236)

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Hello Friends,

God said change yourself
If you could judge not at all
How freed you would be

Love, Light and Aloha!

Hi all God He makes me sure

Hi all God He makes me sure He is in control of Heaven, Heaven as it is on Earth... I missed you all glad to be back..Luv Karen Anyone seen George ???

Of course, I remember you so

Of course, I remember you so very well!

George was in the hospital and emailed us whenever he could. We miss him so much. Every day I hope to hear from him again. I take a dim view of his not posting. No excuses!

 

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