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Heavenletter #4397

Dear Gloria,

The title of this Heavenletter is: "Something’s gotta give" and the very last sentence reads: "Something’s gotta give, and it’s you."

I have no idea how to translate "Something's gotta give". Can you please explain what it means?

Thanks a lot.

Luus

Dear dear Luus, how could

Dear dear Luus, how could you know, dear one?

This is from a Frank Sinatra song by that title, and then I'll give my interpretation as best I can:

SOMETHING'S GOTTA GIVE:

When an irresistible force such as you
Meets an old immovable object like me
You can bet just as sure as you live
Somethin's gotta give
Somethin's gotta give
Somethin's gotta give

When an irrepressible smile such as yours
Warms an old implacable heart such as mine
Don't say no, because I insist
Somewhere, somehow, someone's gotta be kissed

So, en garde, who knows what the fates might have in store?
>From their vast mysterious sky?
I'll try hard ignorin' those lips that I adore
But how long can anyone try?

Fight, fight, fight, fight, fight it with all of our might
Chances are some heavenly star-spangled night
We'll find out just as sure as we live
Somethin's gotta give
Somethin's gotta give
Somethin's gotta give

Fight fight fight it with all of your might
Chances are that some heavenly star-spangled night
We'll find out just as sure as we live
Somethin's gotta give
Somethin's gotta give
Somethin's gotta give

Somethin's gotta give
Somethin's gotta give

Literally, it means: Something has to give. In other words, something has to change.

It sounds like this romantic man and woman are at an impasse in their relationship. And the person singing the song is saying that the woman has to "give in." Of course, when a woman sings the song, she's saying the man does.

Now I'm going to take a look at the Heavenletter, and come right back.

Okay, this may be the crux of the Heavenletter itself:

No more complaining. No more blaming. No more pointing a finger at another. This is your life, not someone else’s.

Certainly, you are not going to try to prove otherwise. Something’s gotta give, and it’s you.

Does this make more sense now, dear Luus?

Thank you, dear Gloria. I'll

Thank you, dear Gloria. I'll make it "Something has to change".

Sounds good, dear Luus.

Sounds good, dear Luus. Bless you!