When there is conflict, it is always a misunderstanding. If there were understanding, there would be no conflict. There would be only differences. There are always differences. Differences are not really of much consequence. What difference does a difference make? One person may be tall, another short. One loves a certain movie, and another does not. One speaks French, another Portuguese. One has brown eyes, one has blue. But no matter what color the eyes, when eyes look into another’s, the soul is seen, and all is well. Eyes are meant to meet.