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4010 - Let Go of Old Stories

Dear all, is there anybody who can make this expression clear for me. I can not translate it, since I can not understand what my mother has to do with the issue :)

"You can see clearly how this one or that one would often see someone as an opponent and how they had transfixed their image of their mother, for instance, upon the one before them whom they saw as opponent. The other may be an opponent, but this person never was your mother."

Beloved Engin

I can see how this isn't clear.

Sometimes someone has unresolved issues with his mother -- often the mother -- and so he puts an innocent party in the role of his mother -- and blames them the way he blames his mother. The person isn't conscious of this, of course.

Does this help?

Ahhhhaa :) In fact, this so

Ahhhhaa :) In fact, this is so familiar =)

thank you xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxxo