Whose Teacher Are You?

God said:

You love to give love. You like to make a point of it, and yet the giving of love is not a project. Love is not so much something to give as it is your very Being. The giving of love is not so much an act of love.
 
It is not that you have to be thinking about giving love and making sure that you do. This may be serving yourself, beloveds. It is good for you to know this.
 
Love comes from your State of Being. Sometimes what you give in the name of love is a reward to yourself. It is true that you serve Me through others, yet giving love to others is not always what you may mean it to be. It can be a feather in your cap. It can be serving yourself, beloveds, in the name of others. This exists.
 
Yes, you are loving, and I ask you to give, and you wish to follow My Will. Remember about loving Me.
 
Putting yourself in the foreground may not be a sustainable practice. You are not meant to be anyone’s savior. It is not always a good deed to do a good deed. You are not the answer to other people’s needs. I AM. And your giving to others may not be the answer for you. It may postpone your self-discovery.
 
Human Beings do not seek for your love, even when they may think they do and you think they do. They are seeking Me and their own love for Me.
 
You are, of course, not obligated to give love. Individuality is not the fulfiller of love.
 
It is not for you to see how much love you can give.
 
In the terms of which I am speaking, no one needs your love. It is not love from you to see someone else’s lack or need. The Great Spiritual Ones did not set out to satisfy people’s needs for love, nor did they set out to satisfy others’ needs for knowledge, The Great Ones set out to do God’s Will. Indeed, through their focus on God and God’s glory, they raised many other people’s consciousness. It was never their accomplishment. They never owned it.
 
You are not a preacher, beloveds. You are not the conductor of an orchestra.
 
Helping people to feel good is not your purpose. It is not for you to think of yourself as an answer to anyone’s prayer. From where does help come?
 
It may be your need that someone feels needy, needs something that you would like to give. Free people from the idea that they need something from you. Free yourself from the idea that others need something from you.  
 
It may be your need to give your definitive help, and yet this may not be helpful to you and your growth, and, in the long run, not to the other. You have greater substance to offer than altruism.
 
No one is to be higher than you. Nor are you to be higher than anyone else.
 
Be as ready to receive answers as you are to give them. You found answers, and you still have more answers to find. Have confidence in others to find their own answers. Answers, like questions, do not stay the same. There are yet more answers for you to find. All are seekers. No one has arrived, beloveds. Everyone is arriving, and there are many roads before you.
 
The role of helper feels good. Your heart is benevolent, no question, yet your good heart and benevolence are not at issue.
 
Yesterday I wrote about the joy of giving, and how you are meant to give. Now I tell you to go easy on the giving. You are a learner too.
 
Help thyself, dear one. Teach thyself.

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Dear Gloria,

Heavenletters is not only a site or a forum in the internet I could chose. To me Heavenletters and Gods words here mean much more. Since this is, where I feel home and I am eager, to learn and to grow. Nowhere else in the internet, I see something alike, Gloria, and I don’t want to or need to search. And also with your forum. There is no other place for me, to say my love to God, than here. And it does just so good to me, to see the comments on your forum. I do love them all and I am lovingly attached to the people here. And I imagine, everybody on your forum has the same intention. It is a miracle to me and it is very very special.
(I am on vacation with my family the next two weeks, I am not sure, if I can read or comment on Heavenletters, just want to let you know.)

God bless you, Uta. Have a

God bless you, Uta. Have a great vacation. I hear that God is going with you!

"No one is to be higher than

"No one is to be higher than you. Nor are you to be higher than anyone else." Seems to be a fine balancing act, Life. Choosing to give without recognition, without sacrifice. Sometimes I feel like the bicycle is going along nicely, then I wobble. Also a good reminder that there are many roads before you. That way we won't be bored.

You love to give love

Oh my Father, the subject of LOVE and giving Love is so much a riddle and very much a perplexed panorama of enigma that is subject to much mental groping and puzzlement and maybe complete misunderstanding.

How can a person not express in words or try to tell someone what he is feeling when that huge surge of wanton good feeling and emotion suddenly comes as if from nowhere or somewhere and fills one's heart to capacity?
The result brings tears of joy to this Human body.. Can one remain still as if nothing has happened? I for one thought that by giving Love one gets Love.What comes around goes around!

Sometimes I find you my Father gives conflicting statements in your Letters and teachings.Or it appears so to me in that piece of time and particular thought.

I know I do not know and want to know who I AM as I am in this Human Body. By commenting on your words I believe I am teaching myself by moving away from my point of reference and seeing my thoughts and perspectives.

This is really a quandry I find myself in and has come to understand that my search is not in congruent with some one else's.And so I tone down my comments as it becomes very overbearing and aloof and unhumbling to another's eyes or ears..

But all I am doing is trying to teach myself what I have seen and learnt. The day that I can move from the surface of life to the depth of my Being at will, then on that day I shall stop all of teaching myself of speculating and opinions. I am a learner.I do not mean to offend.I look to you for guidance and inspiration my Father.

victor

Dear Victor, I understand

Dear Victor, I understand totally what you are saying.

You are not offending.

God will tell us just to love and give love, and in this Heavenletter (and there may be a few more as well) he seems to say to be low-key. Some of us give too much. We can't love too much, yet we can overdo the giving of love, and this may be for our own need and not the other's.

I'm in a rush -- per usual. In the relative, there two or more sides to everything. You know, I think there may be an as yet unpublished Heavenletter on this very subject. I have to go out now and will look for it when I come back.

This is a wonderful topic you have brought up, Victor.

low key

I appreciate this letter today.
To reflect God's Light,
and be and give Love.

Dearest Victor, you are not

Dearest Victor, you are not the first one to express your fine honest thoughts.

What I say is my personal understanding of what other people say and what God says. God would applaud you for loving and wanting to express your love. He would never tell us to hold back our love. A lot depends upon our definition of love.

Although each Heavenletter is for each of us, each Heavenletter is open to our understanding of it, and some points apply to us more than other points. One Heavenletter may, indeed tell the whole story, yet, in the world, there seem to be opposites that are also true. In this sense, every Heavenletter doesn’t tell the whole story. God says somewhere that every person sees the way he or she sees. We are One, yet, in the world, we do not all see alike.

I would like to list some quotations from this Heavenletter:

You love to give love… love is not a project.

Putting yourself in the foreground may not be a sustainable practice. You are not meant to be anyone’s savior. It is not always a good deed to do a good deed. You are not the answer to other people’s needs. I AM. And your giving to others may not be the answer for you. It may postpone your self-discovery.

They are seeking Me and their own love for Me.

You are, of course, not obligated to give love. Individuality is not the fulfiller of love. It is not for you to see how much love you can give.

It is not for you to think of yourself as an answer to anyone’s prayer. From where does help come?

It may be your need to give your definitive help, and yet this may not be helpful to you and your growth, and, in the long run, not to the other. You have greater substance to offer than altruism.

Your heart is benevolent, no question, yet your good heart and benevolence are not at issue.

Help thyself, dear one. Teach thyself.

Beloved Victor, I have underlined a point for you to keep in mind. Your desire to express your love is not in issue.

This is not the first Heavenletter that tells us not to make a project of giving our love. There are probably more Heavenletters that tell us simply to love and love and love.

A long time ago, after such a Heavenletter, this is what a dear young Heavenreader thought God might have meant -- that she should have gone to bed with the young man she dated the night before who wanted her and she had refused. She worried that she might have been wrong to refuse.

We give, but we don’t give away ourselves for the sake of another. We don’t always put another’s need first.

Sometimes people give away too much of their energy to help someone, as if someone really needs us to be the answer to their prayer. We don’t overdo the giving. We don’t have to give our right arm away. This does not mean that we cannot, like a 13-year old girl did in a school held hostage by a shooter, give her life to save a younger child. God bless her. At the same time, we have to remind ourselves that we are not the Savior.

We could go on and on.

I would also like to take a few quotations from the Heavenletter I proofed this morning. It will come out in about three weeks. It is entitled: Come from a Place of Love.

You are not meant to picket anyone.

You are the judge of no one. No one is to have the gall to declare another as unworthy.

Not on any grounds are you authorized to cast anyone out of Oneness.

What you have to do is to grow to the height where you can not sow less than love. You are not to be ashamed that you can truthfully sow love in soil that does not seem fertile to you. Even in barren soil, as you perceive, you can also sow love. Never were you told to sow love only in the best soil. No, you have been told to sow love everywhere.

When you bless another, you are blessing yourself.

When you stand at My door, what can you be but humble?

Is there contradiction in these two Heavenletters?

With love, Gloria

Helping and Teaching myself thru You and with You.

I would have to say that Heavenletters is my Home on the Internet. I have went through quite some challenges. But everyday God brings us something to ponder. I don't know how else to put this, but I was always confident,
before I even searched God on the Internet, meeting people, even though my life was a mess.

After the fact if I had not found God at Heavenletters, I honestly don't know where I would have been, It brings tears to my eyes, because I honestly agree with everything that is coming from God's Heart, Everyday there has been something new from you beloved God, You have brought balance back into my life. And I have personally gotten to know You on such a personal level now that you have walked us both hand in hand and all of us together everyday. Everyday I look forward to something new that you share, and a beautiful lesson everyday. Even going back still holds good lessons.

There is a lesson for everyone, and it has occured to me that there is also a place for everyone in their own development, but Heavenletters has helped me to pick my life back up. Take responsibility for myself and my actions, and the love..... the love that is coming from God's words are coded with something because tears fall down my face. So thankyou God for every lesson, may it have been good, easy hard, what ever the case may be. It was all in the divine plan. I serve You, totally..

I would like to share something in this last paragraph, today I had the most amazing experience, as I was sungazing at noon today. I was alone and been outside all day. As I was in meditation I felt the sun very hot on my lips, the heat that was coming off of my lips became a hot breath and when I was aware it was as if God breathed into my being. And I began to breath and I felt we were ONE breath, inhaling and exhaling, and i knew we were ONE Breath. I have had quite a few special encounters with the Sun and it is very special to me. Its those experiences that really shape and build the delicate foundation that God builds with each of us...
I love you all.

Dear Star-gazed, the sun is

Dear Star-gazed, the sun is a star, so I understand. And you are well-named.

God bless you.