Use This Key
Above all, let go of the fear of disapproval from others. Would that approval were common in the world. Alas, approval has been hard to come by. Acceptance has been hard to come by. Disapproval is easy to find. It’s a dime a minute. When you have good motives, approve yourself. Throw away some things but never your good heart toward yourself. Your approval means something. Others’ approval may or may not.
You are growing and changing with or without approval or disapproval. Those who disapprove may be well-meaning, yet who is there in the world to tell a red rose to become a purple iris, or a yellow dandelion to become a blue-flowered chicory? Who can presume?
Desire to be all that you want to be, and let it happen. And may others do the same regarding themselves.
A tailor can make clothes to fit another. No one can make you to fit another’s ideas. They can try their heads off, yet you are you, and you are growing the best you know how and as fast as you can. You know the way to grow just as your body knew all along. You have ways to grow that are yours. Your ways don’t have to be someone else’s. They don’t have to be anyone else’s.
You can only follow your own inner promptings. You cannot always groom yourself according to someone else’s desires for you. Too many people in the world are hard to please, too hard to please.
And when it comes to your approving others, have a light touch. Others are not your business. Everyone is My business. Approve rather than improve.
This goes for your children as well. The most auspicious way to improve your children is to approve of them. Telling it like it is may not always be in the best interest of the child. Rather than thinking of improving your child, think of the ways you can encourage him and swell his heart. Oh, he will improve. He will improve very well.
Reprimand is reprimand. Encouragement is encouragement. Do not tell your child so much the road to follow. Show him. Even the best-intentioned parent has to withhold his suggestions. Your child is going to follow you. He will embody you. Let him have his space even to misbehave. You don’t have to notice. You are not a policeman giving as many tickets as you can. Hands off as much as possible.
It is important that you love your children, your family, your friends, from your inner heart as I love you. It is My desire to inspire you. And so I ask you to Inspire all. Fill hearts. Let all hearts know you are behind them. Be behind them and not on their back.
This is easier said than done, I understand. Yet this is a great key I am giving to you. This will open the Heavens. It will certainly open doors to and from your heart. Use this key. Be what you want others to be. Don’t pick on any one, not even yourself.
Open wide your heart. Love is better than criticism any day of the week. If criticism comes in a salt shaker, use it very sparingly, maybe once a week, no more. Choose your occasions.
You are a key. You are an opener. You are the key to open other hearts. It is a blessing to open hearts. It is a blessing to be a messenger of love. From the recesses of your heart, love. Turn the key of your heart now.
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