Honing Your Thoughts

God said:

There are habits in the world. There are habits of thinking, customary thoughts you carry around and adhere to. Of course, now you are on your way to thinking new thoughts rather than old.
 
I suppose you can carry around with you two opposing thoughts at the same time. Perhaps. Well, not at the exact same moment could opposing thoughts be thought of. What for? When you have one thought that is better for you to think than another thought, why carry the other thought around with you at all? You become like a man who has chosen a second wife, yet spends so much time with the old one that the new wife is out-shadowed. There must be a better metaphor. In any case, better for you to have your thinking straight, clear, going in one direction rather than in two or more that might cancel out the direction you really and truly want to go in.
 
An old thought is the thought, the awareness, the proclivity to think that you are in need. Sense of need is a disavowal of your connection to Me. Thought of need conjures up despair and a millennium of scenes you don’t want. Sense of need, fear, worry etc. almost insure that you will have needs. “Oh, God, I am in such need. I need, need, need.”
 
Don’t misunderstand Me. When you do not presently have food to eat, you do not presently have food to eat. We come again to human reality as opposed to Truth. Here’s the conundrum, here are the opposing factors: Hunger as opposed to God provides.
 
You could be up in arms. You might say: “Yeah, well, God, where is that Prince Charming You didn’t provide? Where is the job for me that You didn’t provide? Where is that love you didn’t provide?”
 
I do not give hand-outs. That’s not My job. I am not a genie in a lamp that you rub and where I must appear and satisfy your worldly wishes. I can substantiate the means for you to achieve your desires on the worldly plane. I am telling you right now.
 
You achieve by turning off certain modes of thinking and switching on others. Your thoughts matter. Your thoughts have a direct impact on your life. Your thoughts. I am not speaking of your asking Me. I am speaking of your culturing your thoughts. I am not speaking of wishing. I am speaking of a better way.
 
Grasp that what you think has an influence. Complaint breeds complaints. Neediness breeds neediness. Awareness breeds awareness. Fulfillment breeds fulfillment.
 
Immediately? Probably not.
 
Consider that what I tell you is how to build a house. You build it one brick at a time. Enough bricks, and you have a house.
 
What you don’t know, you don’t know. That’s why I’m telling you. Affix blame not to yourself. Affix blame not to Me. Affix blame not to any other, no matter how realistic that may seem. All that is beside the point.
 
If you are in an old mode, you want to get out of it. It’s that simple. I am telling you how to get out of out-moded thinking. You don’t wear out-moded clothing any longer. Why keep old-fashioned thoughts?
 
If you have clothes in your closet or attic or basement that no longer fit you, toss them out. Do the same with thoughts that no longer fit you.
 
Trust in Me. Provide for yourself. No longer think of yourself as needing. Think of yourself as having. Think for yourself, beloveds, as well. Think of goodness, and goodness will come to your door.
 
Now, get this. You do not have to know the means whereby goodness comes to you.
 
This does not mean that you do nothing on the surface. It does mean that you hone your thoughts. Your thoughts are powerful.

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Much of my life has been a

Much of my life has been a search for a guarantee. I think, once I've got my guarantee in place, then I'll relax and enjoy myself. But no guarantee is ever enough. If today is taken care of, what about tomorrow? What about next week, or month, or year? Exactly how much of a guarantee do I require before I realize that I have enough?

If I don't feel safe, no amount of guarantees can satisfy me. In looking a little deeper, it's because I feel the world is too much for me, that I am not big enough to face what the world might bring me. What if a situation comes up and I don't know what to do next? But so far in every situation I have always known what to do next, or in some way the situation has resolved itself.

Eventually I start to see that there is nowhere to hide. There is no amount of safety that I can pile up around me that can be sufficient. But I also can notice that so far along with every new situation arises the ability to meet it. As I gain confidence in this spontaneously arising self that meets the future with me, I realize I can relax a bit more right now. I can afford to focus instead on where I'd like to head as a sense of trust replaces a need for guarantees.

Aaron I like what you say.

Aaron I like what you say. your comments are really inspiring.
Thanks, Uta

I considered just saying

I considered just saying thanks, but my heart told me it wouldn't be entirely true. It's true that it feels really good to hear that I am appreciated. That feels wonderful. But what else am I feeling? A fear of being a disappointment. I imagine just saying thanks, or perhaps saying thanks followed by saying something I appreciate about you. But underneath is an uncomfortable need to say the appropriate thing. What comes to mind are times as a child when my mother would urgently tell me to tell someone thank you, seeming ashamed of me because I didn't say it right away automatically. I can still feel her urgency. A peace comes over me as I describe this. I love not having to be something I don't really understand. Your words are healing to me. Thanks Uta!

to say the appropriate thing

I think this is a very beautiful comment, Aaron, more than beautiful. I'm sure that's a big part of the reason for our being here: To learn to allow every living soul on earth to be, to think, to feel and to speak exactly the way they need to to stay true to their own heart; and then to see that we never had the right or the calling to educate anyone according to our preferences; and then to grant each other the freedom of expression that will finally and for the first time make us true sisters and brothers. I believe we can't even imagine how different the world will be, and how wonderful, when we stop forcing each other to either conform or shut up and be gone.

If peace comes over you while responding to Uta's simple healing words this way, how much peace and happiness must there be in store for all of us.

I feel goose bumps as I read

I feel goose bumps as I read your response. When responding yesterday at first I felt as if I am revealing a shameful secret, but then a wave of peace comes over me and I am delighted that I allowed myself to speak what felt true to me. Not that it is the deepest truth, but that it is deep enough. I often feel this desire to educate you speak of accompanied by a fear of being made wrong. So I attempt to hide it because I see this as evidence against me. But as I discover how beautiful it is to know others as brothers and sisters the need to teach fades and I feel a new warmth shows up in how I approach others.

What I feel from you is warmth right now. Your words bless me and something within me relaxes its tight grip.

Dear Aaron, my words have

Dear Aaron, my words have been coming from my heart, when I wrote the short reply to you. You describe precisely what was going on in you mind and the emotional reaction. Now that I read your answer, I discover, I also had other thoughts comparable to yours, f.e. a fear of being a disappointment. Thank you for being attentive and honest. Your words help me to explore and to discover what belongs to me, and what does disrupt me from myself.
Blessings, Uta

Maybe our deepest secrets

Maybe our deepest secrets prevent us from seeing how alike we are? I like this environment here at heavenletters. Usually I'm not quite so honest, but I feel a warmth here that helps me to see things in myself for the first time. I love the intention of this site to lift the vibration of the world. A change seems to be occurring in my life where I am finding a deeper sense of peace with who I am. As I gain confidence in that peace it's wonderful to share it with everyone. But in the process of gaining confidence it feels practical to be around like minded individuals where I feel safe enough to stop hiding just a bit more.

This also helps me to appreciate the tone Gloria maintains and sometimes enforces on this website. Ideally anything goes, but when a caterpillar transforms into a butterfly it does so within the safety of a cocoon. The vibe and purpose of this site is amazing and I feel grateful to Gloria for her devotion to what she recognizes to be important. It's wonderful to see that perhaps our most important jobs are as natural as our own heart beat and don't really need to be taught to us.

the cocoon

"It's wonderful to see that perhaps our most important jobs are as natural as our own heart beat and don't really need to be taught to us."

Aaron, I really love this last sentence in your comment, expressing a profound insight. It inspires me to add a few words about the cocoon. Biological metamorphosis and its protective mechanisms seem to be an obvious analogy, particularly since our visible, manifest life progresses through so many cocoons – womb, family, home, kindergarten, school etc. which all serve meaningful purposes. I feel, however, that the uniquely human metamorphosis Heavenletters are guiding us toward needs only the cocoon of ... vulnerability, of openness. It can truly flourish only in the defenselessness of what Heavenletters call Being or Oneness, in short, love. We probably have to seek this non-cocoon individually first before it can become the guiding principle of our dealings with one another which I'm sure it will.

Dear "sb", I have a sense,

Dear "sb", I have a sense, of what you mean by saying "we probably have to seek this non-cocoon individually first before it can become the guiding principle of our dealings with one another". Anyway your words do help me.
Thank you Aaron and "sb" for your wonderful comments. I just love how you put your insights, your pondering into words. You are both excellent writers. And I would like to add what I feel. I have a feeling that the state of “Being” is like a lush vibrant plant, which grows out of my mid. I just have to be aware of it. It is not a thing of my head, it is a thing of my inner being, I have to sense carefully and then let it pulsate with what the world around me shows me.

Being

Thank you, Uta. Yes, that's "how to do" it, regardless of circumstances. Women seem to be naturally better equipped for it which, to my mind (that of a male), is why the world needs many more of them in the first row of just about everything. Anyway, you described the process of Being (sorry for that expression) very well, and since we are neighbors, maybe I can somehow take it in by osmosis...

You are very welcome dear

You are very welcome dear "sb". I really was not certain, wether I should write about my feelings, as I am not quite sure about it. So I am happy, you accept it. Todays Heavenletter was also reassuring to me.
I guess we need more of the female part in the first row in how the world appears right now to recreate the right balance. But I have to admit, that I do have a great great respect, of what men are able to create in their lifes!
Do you live in Germany, since you said, we are neighbors?

What does God say?

What does God say?

What does God say?

What a nice surprise, this question, so open and welcoming. It triggers a wealth of things I remember hearing God say. I would like to share some of them, hoping that everyone remembers a gem or two to quote here.

The following is taken from Heavenletter #1664, "Love in the Relative World":
 
 
In the relative, everything bounces off everything else. Life seems to made of trying to understand other people and so you bounce off them, and they bounce off you. Yes, you are learning to understand. But the understanding isn't really the issue. The accepting is. The allowing is. The allowing others to be where they are. They do not have to be in the same place as you, nor do you have to be in the same place as they... Agreement isn't needed. Consensus isn't needed. Allowing and accepting are needed... Consider life the colors of the rainbow. You roam the full spectrum every day. When all is said and done, relative life can be but colors of life. So someone is orange while you are blue. Your common meeting ground is color. Regardless of the variations, you are the same... Love is the recognition of beauty. Even gray has its beauty. Everyone doesn't have to be bright yellow. Everyone can be what they are. You who are opposed to conformity would like everyone to conform to your standards. Your standards are no standards at all. They are arbitrary. But, of course, all of the relative is arbitrary... Know your blood is love. The life-force is love. It is love that moves your fingers on the computer. It is love that moves your eyes to read My words... What is energy but love? Even anger is compressed love. Reveal love as it is, nice easy quiet energy, supporting the universe and the heart of the weeping world.

Really wonderful these quote

Really wonderful these quote - thank you "sb"

What about this quote?

There have been those who say to live today as if it were your last day. There is merit in this. With this idea in mind, you, My children, focus on the preciousness of life, every minute of life, even on this day of life. There is definitely merit in appreciating the gift of life.
Have a great life in the world, why not? And, yet, there is more to life than life in the world.
Of course, the outer world reflects your inner world, and your perception of inner and outer both reflect the other. The world is meant to serve you. Indeed, the world offers you possibilities that only life on Earth can.
Of course, it does matter what We say. It matters very much, for words and thoughts lay the groundwork for what comes.
You plant the seeds of your life with your words and thoughts. And so you grow a beautiful crop. You make a beautiful crop. You foretell it.
Heaven is no story. Heaven is IT. (#4641)

I love it!

I love it!

I love it!

I love it!

loving it

Thank you for loving, Gloria. There is no greater gift to this world in which such strange things seem to happen. You help us distinguish real love from bogus love.

I also admire your

I also admire your expression -- real love, bogus love.

sb -- I would love to know who you are, your name. I understand you live in Germany. Maybe email me and attach your photo. Possible?

This goes for everyone who posts I may not yet know.

Aaron, is not what you write

Aaron, is not what you write the essential of what God's want to teach us in Heavenletters: to trust God is to trust ourself and yet to trust ourself is to trust God? This goes way beyond words. Your comment is excellent.

God bless you both, Aaron

God bless you both, Aaron and Normand. What else is there to say? All is taken care of, and you are doing it!

Honesty and the willingness to be vulnerable

This is a delightful letter of empowerment, but I was even more intrigued by the wonderful exchange that follows it. As these comments show, being honest and courageous in speaking from the heart is powerfully healing – for both the writers and those of us who read what they write. Uta expresses it beautifully and succinctly: “Thank you for being attentive and honest. Your words help me to explore and to discover what belongs to me, and what does disrupt me from myself.”

It is a privilege to read such wise remarks.