I am advising you to not take life so hard. Because something isn't right or nice or fair does not have to be reason for your emotions to escalate. If you have perhaps been taking every untoward experience as an affront, now take one out of three to heart, and let the others go. Then one out of ten, and then none, beloveds. Your emotions are not meant to be the servants of others. If you don't let hurts go, you keep them. You may keep them buried, but only to rise again. That isn't what you really want to do, is it? Let hurts be water rolling off your back. Shrug your shoulders at them.