Dear Gloria,
it is about HL # 5274, 5th paragraph from below.
We read there ... Because he doesn’t understand or can’t understand you means no more than that. Not being understood is such a big deal. Why is it such a big deal to you? Why do you choose to focus on it when you could be focusing on something else?
I guess, a "not" is missing. Doesn't it have to be: Not being understood is not such a big deal.?
Thank you for consideration.
In love,
Theophil