Dear Gloria,
in http://www.heavenletters.org/begin-happiness.html
parag. 10
"You protest that others, the world etc., rule the roost, while you let a habit of speech or procedure of someone else’s wishes make you lose your cool, even when it is only your inner cool. Oh, yes, others are ruling over you all right. You line yourself right up to dance to their tune all in the name of control."
The first sentence seems to me like a steeplechase. What do you mean by "a habit of speech or procedure of someone else's wishes"? I can understand habit of speech but how do I connect the habit of speech or procedure with someone else's wishes? My interpretation would be : while you let someone else's wishes, no matter the way these wishes are expressed, make you lose your cool.
Also, what is the difference between losing your cool and losing your inner cool?
Thanks