Dear Gloria
in http://www.heavenletters.org/the-waves-of-life.html
parag.before last
"Let not your beautiful heart be dragged down. Whatever drags your beautiful heart down, it doesn't have to. You may see what befalls as tragedy. Remember, world life is relative. Tragedy compared to what? What's the matter? Whatever hopes of yours have been dashed, someone else would be overjoyed to have what you see as the matter. There is nothing the matter that has to consume you and destroy your happiness. There is life beyond the curtain of the stage you are on. This is the first act. There is a second and a third, a fourth and a fifth. Be not attached. You don't have to despair."
"There is nothing the matter that..." Do you mean : "There is nothing IN the matter that..." or "There is nothing the matter has to consume"?
Thanks