Dear Gloria
in the following paragraph(s):
"And when it comes to your approving others, have a light touch. Others are not your business. Everyone is My business. Approve rather than improve.
This goes for your children as well. The most auspicious way to improve your children is to approve of them. Telling it like it is may not always be in the best interest of the child. Rather than thinking of improving your child, think of the ways you can encourage him and swell his heart. Oh, he will improve. He will improve very well."
What does this "it" in "telling IT like it is.." refer to? Because in the previous sentence you are talking about the "most auspicious way to improve…" Then you write "Telling it as it is may not always be in the best interest of the child".
Thanks