It is possible that you are more inclined to show that you are unloved rather than that you are loved. This is almost surely true when life seems to prove that you are predominantly unloved. It may be that you find feeling yourself unloved as some kind of victory.
"See how unloved you are," you may repeat to yourself. See all you don’t receive. See all that you have never received, or see all that has been taken from you. You may feel that life has not given you your due. One way or another, life has stolen from you. When this is what you surmise, what else can you be but bereft and misbegotten?
What if you are looking through the wrong end of the telescope?
Start all over. Start from the premise of love. Count the ways. You are entitled to love. You are entitled to breach your present perception. Toss out all that is not useful to you.
If the composition of your life at present is not in tune with love, then recompose your life. There are many notes available to you to choose from. Choose now.
If you have been playing bitter notes, change them. If you want a lighter tone to your life, you can have it. Come from a different premise. If you carry a burden, drop the idea of burden, and engage in sunlight over shadow. Do not sodden your life with dissatisfaction.
You may see yourself as a harried customer of life, yet a customer has choices of what he spends his money on. A customer is not shackled. You, a customer of life, do not have to buy anything you don’t want to. When you are in the supermarket, there is much presented to you. Have in mind what you are looking for. You are not at the mercy of the aisles.
If you see aisles of rotten apples, get out of there. If you should find yourself in the wrong store, leave it. Get your vision away from what you don’t want. Point it toward what you do want.
Do you have the idea that you belong where you don’t want to be? There is no aisle you have to stay in. Turn yourself around.
There is no need for you to stay where you don’t want to be. I am talking about where you are in your mind. Give life a chance. You may feel that life gives you a hard time. Pay attention to how you accept life. You don’t have to fight with life so much as if life were opposed to you and has you in a strangle-hold.
Perhaps you would feel lost if you were not opposed to your life as you see it. You are so accustomed to fighting. You don’t have to fight. Life may throw you curves, yet are you going to spend your life stuck in oppression or are you going to move on? A certain music may be playing, yet you are capable of turning the dial. Maybe the music isn’t stuck. Maybe you are stuck on a certain note.
You are in life. You are not an outcast. You are not only a receiver, you are also a player. Perhaps you are to grow taller. Perhaps you are to reach higher. For sure, you don’t have to stay where you are right now when you don't like it.
Get out of a state of hard-heartedness and resentment towards life. Life has many choices. Life is not one way. You can choose a different lane to go down.
Raise your sights. Change your story. Accept wisdom.