Yes, you have to get out of the habit of small thinking. Once and for all you have to get out of the learned reactions you have made yours to that which causes you frustration. How much better life would be if you could only get out of your resentment and anger about small things.
I will help you. I will coach you. The only thing is that you have to come to a greater grasp yourself.
Let us say, for the third time in three days, a company’s robot has sent you a response to your honest question. The response is no response at all. The robot has no idea of what you are talking about. The robot does not have a clue. And the programmed robot is undaunted. The robot notes cheerfully that it will be happy to answer your questions at any time. So blind and uncaring is the robot that you are frustrated beyond belief. Sometimes a live body is just like the computer robot who doesn’t hear you. It doesn’t matter what you say.
Dear Ones, you have a habit of frustration. From childhood, you may have been in a vise of not being heard. Not being heard is the same as being quashed. Being ignored is an anathema to you. You are so angry at being ignored. Of course, it is not right. Every one of My children deserves to be seen and heard and, frankly, adored, and not ignored.
Yet childhood has not always been all it is meant to be.
So, how do you now become the human being you want to be? Snubs in life keep popping up. Resentment and anger remain, ever-irritating you like a fly that comes back again and again to annoy and haunt you.
Your annoyance becomes like swatting flies. Your mind and the surface of your heart are out to get those flies who have no right to keep buzzing around you. And, yet, here they are, and you take their buzzing personally.
When a company has robots responding to you, there are no fly-swatters with which to get them. A computerized program gives you a run-around, and you would smash that robot if you could. This is the worst kind of non-response in the world you can think of. To be ignored, to be totally ignored, to off-handedly be misinterpreted without having a fair listening.
Don Quixote fought windmills. You fight computer robots.
Once, you were a helpless child. You are no longer a helpless child. Not even nonsensical replies from a machine have any power over you now except as you grant it. And you keep granting it.
Somewhere along the line, you declared war with puppets. The puppets are innocent. Someone else speaks for them, and you are the one who gets angry with the puppet.
You rail at the past in whatever guise it appears in. Whereas others may have fallen into a trap of ignoring you, you, dear heart, now are to learn to drop the past and simply let it go. Even way back then, it was the ignorers’ problem, not yours. Back then, you couldn’t know that. Now you know that. Ignorers are ignorant.
The past is nothing. This moment is everything. Do not keep the past present. Walk out of the past untarnished. There is a grudge from long ago. Do not keep it alive.
How do you get out of the thrall of not being heard? Hear Me, beloveds. Hear Me, and your internal barriers to peace will come falling down. Walk on secure in the attention and love in which I hold you.