My Reply to HEAVEN #2268 You Are Free February 9, 2007
My Reply to HEAVEN #2268
You Are Free February 9, 2007
"Is it really so important that everyone agree with you about anything or everything? Even when you are absolutely right, how much does it matter? What is your vested interest that you must have agreement. Give everyone their free-wheeling space, and have yours.
"When you complain to someone, you are waiting for their agreement. Is their agreement really such a weighty thing that you would wait for it? What is it that you need confirmed? And why do you need it anyway?
Serve others, and don’t ask for much. Opinions are opinions, and that’s all they are. Here today and gone tomorrow. You may not even agree with yourself tomorrow!"
Sometimes I think it is important... at least to me and the thing I am speaking of is this: My husband and I watch very little TV together and when we do he is always saying, "Blow this guy away or put a bullet in this or that guys head and it will solve the problem" And I am always coming back with..."What is it about "violence is not the answer to any problem and 'killing" someone does not stop any problem that you do not understand? Have compassion and a little understandng for your fellowman. Besides you never know what that persons soul contract is."
It may not be those exact words but in that vein. He is a negative and I am a positive... he a glass half-empty individual...me a glass half-full individual. It makes for a very interesting relationship to say the least.
Of course I understand after he spent 22 1/2 years in the military how that has influenced his thinking. As they train our young men to kill ( he went into the Army right out of Highschool - Vietnam war vet) - without thought of the people they are killing but unfortunately they do not de-train their consciousness that violence against other human beings is not the answer and that in reality there are no enemies but yourself.
I must admit though after 22 years of marriage ( Feb 14th, 2007) I am beginning to wonder if any I say sinks in. So Yes, I do think there are times when it is important that someone agree with you.
"Opinions are opinions, and that’s all they are. Here today and gone tomorrow."
Not in 22 years.
Love & Peace,
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