John on Shahid's message Joe replied to
I usually will not say things when there is a situation such as this, but
the state of being my heart is currently in drives me to comment. Your words
here, in your post to Joe Pink:
"What do have against divorce, for example? In some traditions, in some
moral conventions we usually call 'Religion,' divorce is as natural as
moving one's residence. Why would you consider
yourself an authority and one who's job it is to change the world according
to the fashion of your own conception of the way things ought to be?"
John, not to say that in any certain given circumstance it might not be the
best thing for both parties AT THE TIME, but ideally , there should be no
divorce. Whne is divorce EVER a truly "good" thing? Marriage , when gone
into in an appropriate circumstance, is supposed to be a lifelong
committment. It is only when things go awry that divorces are sought out.
So, if everything were "as it should always be", the love that starts out a
marriage would always be there & divorce would be unecessary.
It is my belief that this may be what joe refers to in adding divorce to his
list of negatives.
I have all I need. I have no complaints whatsoever.
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